Helping LGBTQIA+ folks date better
Sup, friend?
Do you think dating is confusing or overwhelming?
It doesn’t have to be!
I help kind queer folks navigate the dating landscape they can have the courage to go after what they want in dating and in life.
If you want to learn how to date, or date better, I’ll help you understand what you want and how to talk about it, so dating becomes an enjoyable process and satiating part of your personal growth journey.
There is no “too taboo” in this space. Just high quality, useful, heart-centered, anti-oppressive, non-gendered information for kind, transparent, and generous daters.
But don’t take my word for it! See what your fellow queer daters have to say…
“Working with Ariella was a game changer. I felt an immediate shift in my mindset and confidence after our first appointment. Having an emotionally intelligent and supportive queer person to work through my thoughts and experiences with was so affirming and frankly exciting to feel seen.”
“After talking with Ariella I have a clearer plan on what I want to get out of dating and actionable steps to get there. It was helpful being able to talk 1:1 about my dating questions. I was able to reaffirm what I was doing right as well as receive feedback on what I could do better. I would definitely recommend coaching to anyone who is unsure about their dating habits or wants learn how they can date more efficiently.”
“Ariella was super great at getting to the root of my dating frustrations and putting solutions and tools in simple terms. She is super relatable and personable which I think is really important in a dating coach as well.”
Who’s it for?
Queer folks who find dating elusive, impossible, not fun, exhausting, confusing, a mess, "what is dating?”, “dating apps SUCK”, “am I just wasting my time?!” …who feel curious about finding another way.
What’s it for?
Through deepening self-awareness, improving communication skills, and embracing a growth-oriented mindset, together we can change the noise around dating. Common themes in sessions are:
Navigating dating during Covid and beyond!
How to make dating apps suck less.
Helping you find, meet, and approach people easier and feel less intimidated by it.
Helping you take responsibility for how you show up on dates.
Managing a fear of rejection, and developing tools for releasing what is not in your control.
Reframing dates from being goal-oriented to appreciating what you can count on getting from them.
Learning the ropes of non-monogamy.
So let’s enjoy the process a little more, no?
I do this work because…
I love helping people,
I love being queer,
I love dating,
I love queer people,
I love queer people dating,
and I love helping queer people date.